Tuesday, November 24, 2009





Hi. My head is full of all sorts of thoughts about food, and friends, and gratitude, and I've been meaning all day to stop in here and put some of them down on paper (such as this is). But I've had a day filled with much activity and little accomplishment. So often it seems that way.

Nonetheless, I'm feeling quiet, but also relaxed. Pretty happy. Not too stressed. Looking forward to cooking and laughing and gathering with friends on Thanksgiving Day.

But, also needing a little space to sort through what this time of year means for our family, in terms of what needs to be kept and what needs to be let go.

I remember my childhood holidays fairly well, and I know that they loomed large for me, both before and after the fact. Now, I feel the weight of our children's expectations, and being responsible for creating those memories for them, pretty heavily during the holidays. I think I need to sort through what of that weight is put upon me, and what of that weight I bring all on my own.

Ok, well. In any event. I hope you all are having a good week, and enjoy the preparations as much as the actual celebration. I read somewhere today that Thanksgiving is the High Holy Day of Foodies. Count me among them.

More tomorrow. Thanks for reading.
tt

10 Comments:

Blogger julochka said...

i know what you mean about the weight of thanksgiving. we've invited the swedish half of the family and all of the danish cousins. and they have HIGH expectations for a real thanksgiving. but at least i have 'til saturday to provide it. :-)

November 24, 2009 4:43 PM  
Blogger shari said...

your photos make me want to come visit ny. beautiful. happy thanksgiving. enjoy!

November 24, 2009 4:47 PM  
Blogger tangled sky studio said...

i find the thanksgiving meal to be the epitome of comfort food. i think it's the combination of the food, family, chaos and tradition that blended together in such a way that everything just tastes better.

cheers to you and your family!
beth

ps: have you seen "home for the holidays"? it's a thanksgiving must see....

November 24, 2009 5:16 PM  
Blogger Char said...

the good thing about children that what they will remember most is the love. i can remember sitting and chopping veg as mom cooked and i can remember her stress levels. i always used to think, why can't it be simpler so she could enjoy it more.

have a beautiful thanksgiving - loved these shots.

November 24, 2009 9:32 PM  
Blogger Jane said...

I put way too much pressure on myself when it comes to this time of year. My goal is to finish up my shopping by Dec. 4th...then I can have fun!

November 24, 2009 9:34 PM  
Blogger heather smith jones said...

I agree with Shari, you live in a gorgeous place! That little stream,
seems it would provide lots of calm. Have a joyous Thanksgiving Tara & Tim!

November 24, 2009 11:02 PM  
Anonymous blair said...

So incredibly beautiful. Love your words about memories surrounding the holidays, I've been thinking about that too. This year Ian and I will make a pie recipe from one of his books together, his request. Happy Thanksgiving!

November 25, 2009 9:13 AM  
Blogger RW said...

I have been thinking similar thoughts as we head into the holidays. I wonder what it is my children look forward to/ anticipate .... so I have decided to ask them. One of the things we have always done is hang a simple string of indoor christmas lights in their bedrooms - and my daughter asked me last night if we can do this soon. yes. we can.

November 25, 2009 10:05 AM  
Anonymous Megan said...

These pics are gorgeous, Tara.

November 25, 2009 3:28 PM  
Blogger Oliag said...

...The past few years I've been reflecting on exactly the same things....what needs to be kept of the old traditions and what needs to be saved of the new ones. I finally realized that holiday traditions evolve as families evolve...it is impossible to continue with all of them...That doesn't make it easy to change some of them though. My daughters are now older and married with children and extended families and I feel their need to start their own traditions...I have to let go...

November 27, 2009 6:05 PM  

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